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Conflict Skills

Simon Goode is a professional mediator and the host of the Conflict Skills Podcast, where he offers free resources and tools to navigate conflicts both in and out of the workplace. With a focus on practical strategies, Simon’s podcast addresses real-world scenarios, providing listeners with the tools to handle disputes effectively. In his recent episodes, he delves into the intricacies of workplace mediation, using case studies like conflicts between managers and staff members to illustrate his points. Simon's expertise and approachable style make his podcast an invaluable resource for anyone looking to improve their conflict resolution skills.

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Relationship Repair - What to Do When Your Spouse and Best Friend Stop Speaking

August 25, 2025 • Simon Goode • Season 1 • Episode 80

Struggling with conflict between your partner and your best friend? In this episode, I break down a real-life scenario where a heated argument over parenting styles led to lasting tension. I share the five types of apologies, why "getting over it" isn't helpful, and how to focus on practical steps for repairing relationships. Plus, I reveal strategies to navigate value clashes and set healthy boundaries when you’re stuck in the middle. Tune in for practical, real-world conflict skills you can use at home or work!

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Parenting Clash Sparks Ongoing Drama

04:09 "Navigating Accidental Mediation"

07:25 Metaphors of Conflict and Repair

12:31 Rethinking "Get Over It"

14:40 Navigating Conflict with Self-Reflection

17:27 Repairing Relationships Through Communication

22:32 Unconscious Conformity in Parenting

26:05 Understanding Children's Behavior Dynamics

28:21 Navigating Reactions and Perceptions

33:34 Three Types of Apologies

34:53 "Trust-Related Apology Dynamics"